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nyykiSo, I have this friend. Her boyfriend, actually her fiancee, is actually a real jerk. He's a liar, he's selfish and spoiled, and he has a very hard time keeping his thingie where it belongs. He's also arrogant and thinks he's betterthan everyone else. She and he have an open relationship, with rules. The biggest one is that nothing happens without the other person being aware of it at the time it happens. Telling each other afterwards is not the game plan.
So, what does this butthole do? He decides to carry on a relationship with her best friend. Covertly. He keeps telling her after the events, like he's rubbing her nose in it and trying to "make amends", but he doesn't change his behavior or stop carrying on with her best friend. Unfortunately, this isn't the first time for either of them -- she lost a best friend before to something exactly like this, and the lying weasel boy has cheated on almost every person he's dated in the past. Of course, he also pulled the classic thing of not letting her sleep with anyone else too.
So, finally, a couple of weeks ago, he decided that he was going to chuck their relationship to the wind and move in with the best friend and her girlfriend. My friend is now completely beaten down and beaten up emotionally from all this, and she's moving to San Marcos, probably never to return to Arlington ever again. (I don't blame her, it's a stupid town) It'll probably tack at least a semester on to her getting a degree, and I'm losing the vocalist in my band too. More importantly, I'm losing close connection with a friend.
So, that said, I hope the lying Skinny Weasel Boy wakes up one day to find that his genitals have fallen off in bed. I hope he suffers premature hair loss, regular ass beatings from people who don't know him but are offended by his existance, and tht everything he tries for in life is denied to him and given to his biggest rival. I hope he loses one finger or toe a year for the next twenty years, and that he develops allergies to his favorite foods. I also hope that the best friend suffers a similar fate.
And just in case you're wondering, my opinion on things is this -- Relationships come and go, friendships last. If you let a relationship get between you and a friend, you're going to reap the harvest in dividends of single digit percentages instead of the three to four digit percentages if you'd done things the other way. There is definitely more than one aspect to the heart, and letting eros supplant friendship is the markings of a fool, and one that may very well turn out very lonely in the long run.
So, any Sopranos or Altos in the DFW area want to join a pagan band?
So, what does this butthole do? He decides to carry on a relationship with her best friend. Covertly. He keeps telling her after the events, like he's rubbing her nose in it and trying to "make amends", but he doesn't change his behavior or stop carrying on with her best friend. Unfortunately, this isn't the first time for either of them -- she lost a best friend before to something exactly like this, and the lying weasel boy has cheated on almost every person he's dated in the past. Of course, he also pulled the classic thing of not letting her sleep with anyone else too.
So, finally, a couple of weeks ago, he decided that he was going to chuck their relationship to the wind and move in with the best friend and her girlfriend. My friend is now completely beaten down and beaten up emotionally from all this, and she's moving to San Marcos, probably never to return to Arlington ever again. (I don't blame her, it's a stupid town) It'll probably tack at least a semester on to her getting a degree, and I'm losing the vocalist in my band too. More importantly, I'm losing close connection with a friend.
So, that said, I hope the lying Skinny Weasel Boy wakes up one day to find that his genitals have fallen off in bed. I hope he suffers premature hair loss, regular ass beatings from people who don't know him but are offended by his existance, and tht everything he tries for in life is denied to him and given to his biggest rival. I hope he loses one finger or toe a year for the next twenty years, and that he develops allergies to his favorite foods. I also hope that the best friend suffers a similar fate.
And just in case you're wondering, my opinion on things is this -- Relationships come and go, friendships last. If you let a relationship get between you and a friend, you're going to reap the harvest in dividends of single digit percentages instead of the three to four digit percentages if you'd done things the other way. There is definitely more than one aspect to the heart, and letting eros supplant friendship is the markings of a fool, and one that may very well turn out very lonely in the long run.
So, any Sopranos or Altos in the DFW area want to join a pagan band?
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Date: 2006-10-21 12:47 am (UTC)"Bros before hos."
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Date: 2006-10-23 12:58 am (UTC)And since you're someone with a somewhat jaundiced view of the whole topic, as well as someone tainted by extreme viewpoints on the subject thanks to religious upbringing, perhaps you need to acknowledge that you're not the best judge in this topic.
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Date: 2006-10-23 01:46 am (UTC)(No, I no longer know which side I'm on, either)
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Date: 2006-10-25 11:41 am (UTC)(+500 Nightchilde Points if you can name the reference)
Love you
Date: 2006-11-18 05:10 pm (UTC)Thanks,
J
Re: Love you
Date: 2006-11-19 12:53 am (UTC)Hey, your phone is full. I tried to leave a message for you today and got a "no can do" response from your voicemail box.
Also, I have well wishes and "miss you's" from people who are thinking of you. Give me a call?
Re: Love you
Date: 2006-11-19 03:27 am (UTC)